Never chew off your arm to be free of a rancid romance, instead rid yourself of an unwanted lover(s) magically with an earthquake spell. The break is painful and sad. Unless you rip through lovers with reckless abandon like I do. Then ridding yourself of them becomes a constant daily ritual. Magically trap them and magically spit them out. It’s simple really when you are an empty soulless succubus. Trust me it gets easier after the first dozen or so.